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The Small Big: Small Changes That Spark Big Influence

The Small Big: Small Changes That Spark Big Influence
Read date: Feb 2019

The Small Big: Small Changes That Spark Big Influence by Steve J. Martin
My rating: 4 of 5 stars

An interesting and generally very practical book: 52 short chapters, each with a specific, straightforward, and tested, suggestion for how you might influence people to get a particular outcome.
– Having problems getting people to attend their appointments for your clinic? Get them to write down the time and date on a slip themselves, or read it back to you over the phone – this improves rates over simply giving them a printed slip with the details.
– Want to improve your own likelihood of going to the gym or remembering to meditate? Visualise the specific details of what you’re going to do as you start the process, in advance of when you want it to happen. Better yet, write these details down in a short note to yourself.
– Want to improve your tips as a server in a restaurant? Put a sweet or a mint on the tray with the bill for each person in the group – and then come back after a minute with another mint or two.

And so on. Each chapter will only take you ten minutes to read, and although you may have come across some of the suggestions before if you’ve read the authors’ other works, there will very likely be some that are new to you. And by the way, the authors are not science journalists, but are among the most widely recognised leaders in this field – Cialdini, for example, is the most referenced author ever in the field of social influencing.

Clear, helpful, actionable: what more could you ask?

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Don’t Shoot the Dog!: The New Art of Teaching and Training

Don't Shoot the Dog! by Karen Pryor
Read date: Jan 2019

5 stars!

I cannot find fault with this book as an overview of the use of conditioning in training. Karen Pryor’s experiences with training aquatic mammals in the 1960s lead her to a deep understanding of the nuances of what works. She found that positive reinforcement not only works well, but it works much, much better than anything else: it is faster, longer-lasting, and can elicit a greater range of behaviours. And, not insignificantly, it deepens the bond between trainer and trainee.

So if you want to reinforce (or extinguish) particular behaviours from your dog, your horse, your pet porpoise, or even your housemate, this book will show you how. There is a chapter at the end specifically about clicker training, which is now very widely used for dogs, but read the rest, too, as it explains how all this works, and how it works best.

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How to Be a Person in the World: Ask Polly’s Guide Through the Paradoxes of Modern Life

How to Be a Person in the World: Ask Polly's Guide Through the Paradoxes of Modern Life
Read date: Nov 2018

How to Be a Person in the World: Ask Polly’s Guide Through the Paradoxes of Modern Life by Heather Havrilesky
My rating: 5 of 5 stars

Well, what a marvelous book this is: a collection of long, wise, sweary, ranty, and very very funny responses from the advice columns of Heather Havrilesky. Never afraid to say to her correspondents “oh yes, I also did that enormously stupid thing for five years in my thirties”, she manages also at the same time to dispense sage words, with enormous kindness and empathy to the person on the other end of the letter.

No matter how you are living your life right now – regardless of how badly or how well you are doing in the game we all have to play through to the end – you will learn something from these pages. One to read, re-read, and then read some more until the pages start to fall out.

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The Undoing Project: A Friendship that Changed the World

The Undoing Project: A Friendship that Changed the World
Read date: Oct 2018

The Undoing Project: A Friendship that Changed the World by Michael Lewis
My rating: 5 of 5 stars

I loved this story of Amos Tversky and Danny Kahneman’s lives, how their paths crossed and re-crossed, their extraordinary friendship, and their uncovering and unpacking of the way in which we are not the perfect, rational, beings that economists and psychologists once had us believe.

Michael Lewis is a consummate storyteller, and he does a brilliant job of bringing these two characters to life, with all their brilliance as well as their human frailties. One aspect I particularly liked was the interweaving of their lives with the emergence of modern Israel – Tversky was born in Palestine, while Kahneman’s family emigrated there after the war. It feels very much as if the culture and the intellectual climate of the new country was a significant factor in what they were able to accomplish.

This is a story that has not yet ended, even though one of the two leading characters is no longer with us. Others have picked up the torch, and are carrying it forward. The implications of their work are profound and still being explored, yielding so far a couple of Nobel prizes, and some important implications for our understanding of ourselves, how we make decisions, and how we can make them smarter.

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Which Cult Should I Join? A Choose-Your-Own Guidebook for the Spiritually Bereft

Which Cult Should I Join?: A Choose-Your-Own Guidebook for the Spiritually Bereft
Read date: July 2018

Which Cult Should I Join?: A Choose-Your-Own Guidebook for the Spiritually Bereft by Jo Stewart
My rating: 4 of 5 stars

Entertaining tour of some of the weird and wacky cults out there, laid out in the form of one of those “write your own adventure” books from my youth. By answering a series of questions, you will find the cult most “appropriate” for you – or that’s the joke. Each cult is described in a page or so, which clearly barely does justice to some of the odd-ball beliefs out there, but it’s enough to whet your appetite for further study, should you so choose.

Of course what you’ll likely end up doing is playing with your answers to see where they lead, to find the kind of cult that would suit a rifle-toting believer in satan and his ways who also likes heavy rock music, or whatever takes your fancy. And of course you could always do what I ended up doing, which is reading it all from the beginning.

All in all, a well-written series of brief accounts of the stranger fringes of our world, well worth making a present of to someone you know – so long as you get to play along as well.

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The Elephant in the Brain: Hidden Motives in Everyday Life

The Elephant in the Brain: Hidden Motives in Everyday Life
Read date: June 2018

The Elephant in the Brain: Hidden Motives in Everyday Life by Kevin Simler
My rating: 4 of 5 stars

Very intriguing idea, clearly thought through, with great examples

I loved the core idea here – that actually we don’t know our true motives for many of the things we do, and that our brains are in fact set up so that this ignorance is reinforced. There are some great examples, small and large, of habits (at one end) and entire economic or social institutions at the other end, that illustrated these points. A!though the authors seemed concerned that readers would find some of the examples hard to swallow and too hard to believe, I found them all entire too credible. So perhaps for me the book’s only failing was in not being hard hitting enough, rather than going too far. Overall though an excellent read, with many Kindle highlights created.

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